How to Spot and Avoid Predators in the Scene: For Tops and Bottoms

We’ve all heard the words narcissist, sociopath, manipulator, and predator, now let’s talk about how to protect ourselves from them. Most discussions on this topic are focused on the tops who abuse their power. In this class we will not only address what to look out for when a top preys on vulnerable bottoms, but also the bottoms who are not as innocent as they appear. Just as there are deceptive people in vanilla world, so too are there kinksters with ulterior motives. In this class we will talk about red flags such as ignoring limits, disregarding safe words, a lack of communication, selfish pleasure seekers, energy vampires, and more.

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